Being Talked To Like I Was A Sex Toy, Like Being Transgender Was Simply For The Enjoyment Of Someone Else: Fetishization And Sexualization Of Transgender And Nonbinary People Pmc
That’s a good point, but what we’re aroused by isn’t really a choice. While it’s cheap to place value judgments on people’s decisions, I don’t suppose it’s affordable to do so with factors that aren't decisions similar to their sexual (for lack of a better word) proclivities (orientation, kinks, body types, age, race, etc.). IMO not being attracted to trans girls would fall into this class. Or you can continue participating together with her and see the place your future interactions take you. Explain that it’s a new expertise, however you’re open to seeing how things go with out expectations or pressure. If you choose this route, save her the difficulty of answering invasive questions by doing a fast Google search about trans ladies and our identities. Woman seems on…